Controversy erupts over burial ban in community hall

Last updated on 2025-07-23

The Seleka Tribal Office, outside Lephalale has ignited heated debate by denying burial services in their local community hall, citing adherence to Baphuting-Bo-Seleka traditions.

The controversy arose when the Setjie and Molaiwa families, united through their children’s marriage, sought to use the hall for a joint funeral service, as [their]small Methodist Church could not accommodate expected number of mourners.

Although they initially received permission—with conditions that included covering electricity costs and cleaning the facility afterward—the agreement was abruptly canceled, leaving the families bewildered.

An official at the tribal office, Solly Seleka emphasised the office stance, declaring, “We do not allow coffins carrying bodies in our hall. It is against Baphuting-Bo-Seleka tradition.”

He clarified that the decision to revoke the agreement was made by a full bench of the traditional council.

However, insiders claimed Chief Gaborone Seleka was the one who ultimately made the cancellation, raising eyebrows among community members.

The abrupt reversal has left the grieving families feeling disheartened and perplexed.

The saden shift left families scrambling for alternatives, erecting a tent in the church yard, with one family member calling it “betrayal of trust.”

“We were prepared to follow all the rules, and then suddenly, it was taken away from us,” one family member lamented.

The unexpected turn of events has not only caused distress but also prompted residents to scrutinise consistency of Seleka Tribal Office policies.

Community members are questioning why the council allowed request in the first place and then revoked it, particularly when the hall is used for social events but denied for a dignified ceremony.

“This is painful time for us, and it feels unjust to deny proper farewell,” said family member, expressing frustration at the apparent hypocrisy.

The situation has ignited dialogue within the community about balance between tradition and modern needs, highlighting importance of honouring both grief and cultural practices.

The incident has sparked broader discussion about how tradition is upheld and adapted in the face of contemporary community challenges.

With emotions running high, Seleka Tribal Office may need to reconsider its approach to mourning practices, fostering understanding and compassion within the community it serves.